Background

Some of the members of Ruthie's Refugee Beads program are from Bhutan and Burma.

She found these Al Jazeera videos that do a great job of showing the crises that brought the women to America.

Bhutan:



Burma:

A Very Long, yet Incomplete List of Short Stories

I decided to spend my free day cataloguing the short stories I've read, which would seem like an excessive, dull chore to someone else, but is an enjoyable use of time for me.

So, before we launch into this monstrosity, a few notes are in order:

First, obviously, this is not complete. I'm sure that I've read dozens, or perhaps hundreds, of short stories which I forgot about as I was working today. I didn't go back to my childhood books or scour the backlist of Harper's and New Yorker and Atlantic Monthly issues that I've read. I probably forgot a ton of Updike, Boyle, and Coover stories as a result.

Also, I left out some good humor pieces from The Onion, McSweeneys.net, and Modern Humorist because they seemed more like comical essays than stories. Plays and scripts had to go too, as well as graphic stories and comic-type stuff. Finally, I recalled collections of flash fiction which would have doubled the size of the list, so I dropped them as well. This was simply because I wanted to make the task more manageable, not because any of these things don't qualify somehow.

I've put an * by stories that blew me away. I'll probably do a "top twenty" in the next few days. So here is the list:

Alan Ackman
· No Cry of Distress in Our Streets

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
· Half of a Yellow Sun *

Chris Adrian
· The Stepfather

Daniel Alarcon
· City of Clowns *

Thomas Bailey Aldrich
· Marjorie Daw

Steve Amick
· Santa & Son

Daphne Beal
· The Poor Thing

David Benioff
· Zoantropy

Ambrose Bierce
· The Damned Thing
· An Occurrence at Owl Creek Bridge

Tom Bissell
· God Lives in St. Petersburg *

Jenny Bitner
· The Pamphleteer

T.C. Boyle
· Blinded By the Light
· Wild Child

Arthur Bradford
· Chainsaw Apple
· Mollusks

Christopher Buckley
· We Have a Pope! *

Judy Budnitz
· Flush

Sean Casey
· The First Chapter

Daniel Clowes
· Justin M. Damiano

Randy Cohen
· DJ and Emma, A Story in Two Parts

Brendan Connell
· The Life of Captain Gareth Caernarvon *

Robert Coover
· The Case of the Severed Hand
· Heart Suite

Edwidge Danticat
· Lele

Amanda Davis
· Fat Ladies Floated in the Sky Like Balloons

Doug Dorst
· The Candidate in Bloom *

Roddy Doyle
· New Boy

Dave Eggers
· Another
· What it Means When a Crowd in a Faraway Nation Takes a Soldier Representing Your Own Nation, Shoots Him, Drags Him from His Vehicle and Then Mutilates Him in the Dust
· The Only Meaning of the Oil-Wet Water
· On Wanting to Have Three Walls Up Before She Gets Home
· Climbing to the Window, Pretending to Dance
· She Waits, Seething, Blooming
· Quiet
· Your Mother and I
· Theo

Ben Ehrenreich
· What You Eat

Courtney Eldridge
· Young Professionals

Stephen Elliott
· I’ll Change Completely

Jonathan Safran Foer
· Rhoda

Ken Foster
· Red Dresses

Adam Golaski
· Color Plates (Series)

Andrew Sean Greer
· Colton Wicks

Edward Everett Hale
· The Man Without a Country

Jim Hanas
· The Adventures of Bad Badger

Bret Harte
· The Luck of Roaring Camp *
· The Outcasts of Poker Flat
· The Right Eye of the Commander

John Haskell
· Good World

Nathaniel Hawthorne
· Rappaccini’s Daughter

Kaui Hart Hemmings
· The Minor Wars

Marc Herman
· Draft Text of a Proposal for a Focus Group Study on How Best to Relate The Discovery of El Dorado, City of Gold

Aleksandar Hemon
· The Liar

Rachel Haley Himmelheber
· Happiness Reminders

John Hodgman
· Fire: The Next Sharp Stick?

A.M. Homes
· Cindy Stubenstock

Nick Hornsby
· J. Johnson (with Posy Simmonds)

Christopher Howard
· Prince of the World

Samantha Hunt
· Blue

Washington Irving
· Rip Van Winkle
· The Legend of Sleepy Hollow

Thom Jones
· Night Train

Camden Joy
· Hubcap Diamondstar Halo

Heidi Julavits
· Judge Gladys Parks-Schultz

Miranda July
· Roy Spivey

Tom Junod
· J.H.C.

Tom Kealey
· Bones

Robert Kelly
· How They Took My Body Apart and Made Another Me

A.L. Kennedy
· Frank

Brian Kennedy
· I Know What You Did Two Moons Ago (The Revenge)

Stephen King
· The Little Sisters of Eluria

Lawrence Krauser
· The Lemon

Milan Kundera
· The Hitchhiking Game

Hari Kunzru
· Magda Mandela

Jonathan Lethem
· Perkus Tooth

Adam Levin
· Hot Pink

Toby Litt
· The Monster

Benjamin Lytal
· Weena

Elizabeth McKenzie
· Stop That Girl

Paul Maliszewski
· Two Prayers

Gabriel Garcia Marquez
· A Very Old Man with Enormous Wings *
· Leaf Storm
· Tuesday Siesta

David Means
· Elyria Man *

Herman Melville
· Benito Cereno

Joe Meno
· People are Becoming Clouds

Philipp Meyer
· One Day This Will Be Yours

Magnus Mills
· Hark the Herald

David Mitchell
· Judith Castle

Yannick Murphy
· In a Bear’s Eye

Joyce Carol Oates
· Bad Habits
· The Gathering Squall
· The Sky Blue Ball *
· Death Mother
· The Hand Puppet
· Schroeder’s Stepfather
· The Sepulchre
· The Hands
· ------
· Labor Day
· The Collector of Hearts
· Demon
· Elvis is Dead: Why Are You Alive?
· Posthumous
· The Omen
· The Sons of Angus MacElster
· The Affliction
· Scars
· Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?
Gina Ochsner
· Hidden Lives of Lakes *

Flannery O’Connor
· Everything That Rises Must Converge *
· Greenleaf
· A View of the Woods *
· The Enduring Chill
· The Comforts of Home
· The Lame Shall Enter First
· Revelation *
· Parker’s Back
· Judgement Day

Andrew O’Hagan
· Gordon

Robert Olmstead
· The Probability of Great Events Sets Life in Motion

Lance Olsen
· Sixteen Jackies

Daniel Orozco
· Somoza’s Dream *

Julie Orringer
· The Smoothest Way is Full of Stones

ZZ Packer
· Gideon

T.Z. Parsa
· Christmas in China (O-E-O-E-O!)

A.G. Pasquella
· Why Not a Spider Monkey Jesus?

Paula W. Peterson
· Big Brother

Edgar Allan Poe
· The Unparalleled Adventure of One Hans Pfall
· The Balloon-Hoax
· Mesmeric Revelation
· Ms. Found in a Bottle
· A Descent into the Maelstrom
· Von Kempelen and His Discovery
· The Fall of the House of Usher
· The Murders in the Rue Morgue
· The Purloined Letter
· The Tell-tale Heart
· The Premature Burial
· The Pit and the Pendulum
· The Masque of Red Death

Neil Pollack
· Man’s Fate – 98: Learning to Love Again, A Story in Three Parts *

Cheryl Printup
· The Promise of Something

Todd Pruzan
· Hooper’s Bathhouse

Nelly Reifler
· The Railway Nurse

Tim Rogers
· The Monkey and the Snake

J.D. Salinger
· A Perfect Day for Bananafish
· Uncle Wiggily in Connecticut
· Just Before the War with the Eskimos
· Down at the Dinghy
· For Esme – with Love and Squalor
· Pretty Mouth and Green My Eyes
· De Daumier-Smith’s Blue Period
· Teddy

George Saunders
· Puppy

David Schickler
· Fourth Angry Mouse

Heidi Jon Schmidt
· Blood Poison

David Shields
· On Views and Viewing

Posy Simmonds
· J. Johnson (with Nick Hornsby)

Alison Smith
· The Specialist

Zadie Smith
· Hanwell Snr.

Frank R. Stockton
· The Lady, or the Tiger?

Adam Thirlwell
· Nigora

Colm Toibin
· Donal Webster

Mark Twain
· The Man that Corrupted Hadleyburg *
· The Celebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County

Deb Olin Unferth
· Deb Olin Unferth

Vendela Vida
· Soleil

David Foster Wallace
· Another Example of the Porousness of Various Borders (VI)
· Yet Another Example of the Porousness of Certain Borders (VIII)
· Mr. Squishy *
· The Soul is Not a Smithy
· Incarnations of Burned Children *
· Another Pioneer
· Good Old Neon *
· Philosophy and the Mirror of Nature
· Oblivion *
· The Suffering Channel *

John Warner
· The Circus Elephants Look Sad Because They Are

Sean Warren
· What Keeler Did to His Foot in the Navy

Edmund White
· My Hustlers

Thomas Wolfe
· The Lost Boy
· No Cure for It
· Gentlemen of the Press
· A Kinsman of His Blood

The Missionary Life is a Good Life

I hear ministers say things like, "I could be doing so-and-so, and living the American dream..."

The idea, I guess, is to emphasize that they gave up temporary enjoyment for an eternal reward or a more fulfilling occupation.

Today, Britney was walking home to her apartment carrying two bags of groceries. She saw us as we were leaving, ran over and threw her arms around Ruthie, still holding the bags. She then ran around the car to give me a hug. After that, she ran back over and rejoined her dad.

When I think about living here in the International Village, surrounded by lively neighbors, exotic foods, incredible cultural diversity, and a group of kids who are so open-hearted with us, it's hard to feel like we gave anything up.

Sure, there are things I want to add to our life here. I miss the creative scene in Chicago. Bad stuff's gonna happen. I get extremely lonely some days. At some point, we'll want to give up. When that time comes, we'll have to put the good and the bad side by side and pray for the wisdom to rediscover our joy.

But all in all, I can't imagine a more enjoyable way to spend the here-and-now. we're having a blast.

A Question of Security

Last night was rough, but this morning the mess started to make sense. This morning as I met with Tim and Josh from Open Table Community, I realized two things about the break-in.

1. Once we have done everything prudent to secure our apartment, I need to realize that it will never be completely safe. I realized through this whole thing that if such a silly little plot was enough to throw me off, I need to correct my attitude about the home. It really isn't ours to worry about.

2. The whole thing is actually an opportunity for us to grow closer to J and JC. Ruthie and J had a long talk today about grace, a concept he had never heard of. She told him about how we felt hurt by what he had done, but that we cared about him, and wanted to work together to rebuild trust.

J was tearfully repentant, and wrote the following in a letter to me while I was away at work:

"To Ean, I am so sorry I broke the rules and went to the house. I promise I'll never do it again. Love, J."

JC, on the other hand, avoided Ruthie, refused to discuss the break-in, and was even loitering suspiciously around the apartment later. We need to figure out how to deal with him. It's still pretty uncomfortable knowing that a kid wants to break into your house as soon as he gets the chance.

Thankfully, after all the hubub, we had an amazing evening with our friends Josh and Margaret Feit. We went over for dinner and ended up playing foosball and swapping stories until near midnight. Their company was exactly what we needed.

And now, my dear readers, sleep is exactly what I need, so adios until tomorrow.

The Break-in

It was the kind of scheme I might have thought of as a kid, but it has me very angry right now.

I have a video game that J wanted. I told J he'd have to wait until I beat it to borrow it. J's friend JC was mad about not being allowed to go to the bike workshop because of his age. So J and JC hatched a plan to get the game and get back at me.

After the activities were over, they came in to look for JC's keys, which he said he left there. It was a lie to get inside. While JC pretended to look for his keys, J unlatched the window. JC pretended to find his keys.

I saw J peeking around the corner to make sure I was in the dining room. Not sure which of them to keep an eye on, I looked once more at JC and then went to check on J.

By the time I got back to where J was, JC pretended to find his keys and they exited. I watched both of them to see if they were carrying anything out. When I saw that they weren't, I went back and checked in the activities room. Nothing was amiss.

When Eric and I returned from an errand, I saw kids scatter from around our window, and I realized exactly what the whole thing had been about.

We had come home too soon for them to get all the way inside, so they slammed the window shut with the draw string for the blinds still hanging outside.

I went out and found them right away and told them that the next time anyone tried to break into my house, I would call the cops. J lied about it. JC shrugged and walked away.

It's not a big deal to lose stuff, but to have kids that we invite into our home try to take advantage of us and steal from us, is pretty rattling. I didn't talk to their parents or my friends with the PD or management yet (all of these thoughts occurred to me), because I don't want to do anything out of anger.

Some discipline is certainly in order, but I may not be the man for the job. I honestly can't say I'd be doing it out of love. We'll see what clarity of mind and/or heart the morning brings.

Christian Cloning

Today I was thinking about this idea that we, as missionaries, should be working to reproduce ourselves in the people we disciple.

The classic picture is that "professional" ministers shoulder all the burdens of their people until a suitable replacement graduates from seminary. The idea that seems to have replaced that is that ministers reproduce themselves, and you have a trickle-down replication process. This is a step in the right direction, but I think we could do better.

Reproducing myself in others would rob them of the power of their own journey, and it would make for a pretty boring church (although, I admit, such a group of followers would have great taste in movies and music).

So when I work with immigrants and refugees, I'm not thinking about how to help them understand how to do what I do.

I want to help them do what they do best, which will minister back to me in turn.

Think of it this way: Aziz has the power to reach people with his visual art. So I'm not gonna try to turn him into a writer. Bayo is a well-dressed, high society kind of guy. I'm not out to convert him into some flip-flop wearing borderline beatnik like me. Junior is a stubborn and wild kid. I have no interest in turning him into a contemplative, easygoing person. That's my thing, not his.

Each of us has a role to play in the kingdom. Our own stories put us in a unique position to live unique lives. Now that others look to me as a mentor, I consider it my job to help them find their own places in the grand story of God's relationship with His world.

Lord knows this world couldn't handle many more guys like me anyway.

Foothills Community Church

The things that keep people from doing ministry are often small things, like weather or travel time.

Today, Foothills Community Church braved both. They drove in from out of town on a blazing hot summer day to hang out with the kids at Huntington Terraces. This was their second block party at this location, and each time they come, they have a great impact.